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Counting My Blessings

An exercise in positivity.


Book 99. A Very Private Eye: An Autobiography in Diaries & Letters, Barbara Pym
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edited by Hazel Holt and Hilary Pym

The young woman has just read a novel by Rosamond Lehmann about the suffering of women in love-- it makes her feel inferior as if she isn't capable of suffering so much. Perhaps when I'm older, she thinks hopefully.
pg. 189

First of all, let me say that if you have not read any novels by Barbara Pym, then you should remedy that quickly. Not because of this book, exactly, but because I tend to believe that most people's lives are richer for having at least read The Sweet Dove Died (as one choice). Certainly if you have any interest in reading Pym's letters and diaries, it would be better to first read one of her books.

I haven't read just one of her books. I have read most of them. (I had originally planned to write that I read all of them, but I realize that this isn't true-- I've never gotten around to either Some Tame Gazelle or A Few Green Leaves.) I also love to read diaries and letters. I was a natural to read this book and it didn't disappoint me. I really enjoyed it-- a rare treat to look a little ways into the mind of one of my favorite writers.

The book spans the years between 1932, when Pym was at Oxford, and 1979, when she sadly died of breast cancer. Her sister, Hilary Pym, provides a biographical sketch of her early life. As the title of the book suggests, the material is arrange chronologically and drawn from Pym's diaries, notebooks, and letters.

As is normal in a case like this, there is more material for some years than others. This can make the pacing a bit odd if one tries to read it as a narrative-- I wished for more in some places and (honestly) less in others. I love her tone, and I added quite a few novels to my reading list based on what she recommended. I was most struck by her sense of time passing-- it never left her, not all the way through her life.

I am not sure how much I would recommend this book if a reader did not like nor was not familiar with Pym as a novelist. I can recommend it wholeheartedly for her already established fans.

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Book 49. South Riding, Winifred Holtby
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“We need courage, not so much as to endure as to act. All this resignation stunts us. We're so busy resigning ourselves to the inevitable, that we don't even ask if it is inevitable. We spend so much time accommodating ourselves to other people's standards, we don't even ask if our own might not be better. We're so much occupied in letting live that we haven't begun to live.” She drew a deep breath as though she had received a revelation. “That's it. That's it. We haven't even begun to learn yet how to live. We're still a blind and stumbling race of savages, crawling up out of the primeval slime, trailing behind us fears and superstitions and prejudices like jungle weeds, and not daring to get rid of them because patience and resignation are still accounted virtues. We've got to have courage, to take our future into uor hands. If the law is oppressive, we must change the law. If tradition is obstructive, we must break tradition. If the system is unjust, we must reform the system. 'Take what you want,' says God, 'Take it and pay for it.'”
pg. 189


First of all, thank you very much to [info]oursin who pointed me towards this book in the first place. I will confess that I had never even heard of Winifred Holtby, and now I have no idea why that would be the case.

South Riding is wonderful, and that simple description does not do it justice. The only thing that I am sorry about is that I have apparently begun with her best work. South Riding was begun late in her life (finished just before her too young death at 37 of kidney failure). It is tempting to think that perhaps an awareness of her coming death is part of what makes the book so fine. But that's cheap psychology, and I do not want speculation like that to take away from the novel.

It took me a little bit to get into this book-- something about the beginning made me resist the text. If you have a similar experience, don't give up. I cannot figure out now what caused the resistance (something to do with the sinking feeling that this book was going to be really really really dry), but it was quickly over and I was engrossed for the rest of the reading experience.

What made the book so wonderful for me was the way that Holtby took out the gothic story elements and dusted them off, adding a brisk dose of emotional and procedural reality. The book has the brooding landowner with a half-neglected child and mad wife. It has the harum-scarum schoolteacher who takes the child under her wing. There is a love affair, but Jane Eyre this isn't. This isn't the sweep of romance, but something more about the inevitability of life. Holtby's characters have to struggle to keep their dignity. Some of them fail. Some of them put too high of a price on their independence. Some never have a chance from the start. Sarah is an absolutely wonderful character (the characters in general are the strongest part of the book) and the fact that she manages to keep her head up never implies that she has been left unscathed.

Rigorous, well-written, and beautifully developed. Highly recommended.

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Book Review-- 71. A Maggot, John Fowles
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I have long concluded that established religions of any kind are in general the supreme example of forms created to meet no longer existing conditions. If I were asked what the present and future world could best lose or jettison for its own good, I should have no hesitation: all established religion. But its past necessity I do not deny. Least of all do I deny (what novelist could?) that founding stage or moment in all religions, however blind, stale and hide-bound they are later become, which saw a superseded skeleton must be destroyed, or at least adapted to a new world. We grow too clever now to change; too selfish and too multiple, too dominated by the Devil's great I, in Shaker terminology; too self-tyrannized, too pledged to our own convenience, too tired, too indifferent to others, too frightened.
pg. 455

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